Eva Weisberg, January 2011
Do you want to know a bullet-proof seduction technique that really works in every situation? That can be guaranteed to hook women left, right and centre? What do you think it might be? Unusual, unique pick-up lines that will attract her attention for sure? Generosity and a sense of humour? Those secret tricks you heard about before which didn't seem to work? No. The real big secret is simple: Confidence! Confidence can take you anywhere and help you reach heights you never dreamed possible. Simple confidence will attract the girl you want — guaranteed.
You might wonder, why exactly is it that confidence is so important? Well, for a start, how many confident people do you know? Most people have issues that they can't hide, or don't even bother trying to. They make belittling jokes about themselves (hiding it as "self-deprecation"), slouch, try to seem cool and arrogant… That's not confident! It's no surprise that guys who are sincerely confident attract girls like magnets! Most guys (and girls) are far from confident, and if you manage to be so you will easily become the most desirable person for miles around. Even better, you merely need to act confident. If you do it well enough, no-one will know the difference — and it will soon help you build real confidence anyway.
Girls are attracted to confidence like crazy and I will never stop emphasizing it enough. You don't need muscles, amazing looks, lots of money, or awesome achievements in sports or at work to be hugely successful with women. Sure, it all helps, but it's not a must. What you really need like air is confidence. Girls are attracted to it because it is a rare, and a damned sexy, quality. Because it makes them feel special and protected to be around a confident guy. And because we all want to be close to confident people, men or women! Confident people get amazing results in their love lives, careers and other achievements than "normal" people. They get more of everything in this life. Once you have realized it and tried it out, you will be amazed at the results, I promise you. I don't like empty promises. The internet is stuffed full of them. But confidence is the real thing. Everybody craves it, and everybody craves a confident partner.
Now, what do you do with this information? Apply it to all areas of your life as soon as possible! I don't just want you to apply it to your love life. Don't just work on boosting your confidence when you approach a girl at a bar and offer to buy her a drink. I want that, too, but you can do so much more! Imagine how nice it will be to never have those mountains of worry and uncomfortable moments again! It has
been proven that certain exercises and manners of thinking can boost your confidence in a short period of time — no more than months, and possibly much less.
By now you must have realized how important confidence is. It's something that's worth reminding yourself time and time again. If I could choose only one "trick" to make someone fall in love with me, it would be confidence. Because it's pretty much the only "trick" that's reliable.
If you want to learn more about confidence and how to grow it in yourself, there is a wealth of material available. For building general confidence I would recommend in particular Paul McKenna's book "Instant Confidence". I go into more detail on other exercises and the importance of confidence in building relationships in my book Get a Girl — by a Girl, also available for the Amazon Kindle at Amazon USA and Amazon UK.
